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For the average Joe, dating is going to be more of a hurtful experience than it will be an enjoyable one because they will be on the wrong end of the chase. Instead of trying to play hard to get with a woman and incite her to want to chase after them, all they will do is play the role of the one who chases and that will make it almost impossible for them to create any attraction with a female. It's the guys that get the fact that they cannot do 100 percent of the chasing that wind up with the success in the dating world.
We all know that the average bloke does not incite desire in a woman. Rather, he tries to win her over by a means of submission. By constantly playing the role of the attention giver until she reaches a point where she just gives in. Of course, most women won't give in, they will find someone else. And the average guy will be alone, and wonder why he just cannot seem to find the right girl.
Do you want to women to feast their eyes and their attention on you? If so, then you have to learn how to trigger desire in a woman. Without it, the idea that you will end up with a girlfriend is good for a laugh, if nothing more than that. You should question why it is that you end up being the guy who is looking for a woman's attention rather than being the one who decides whether or not she gets it.
You cannot really make sense of that, can you? Yet, this is the unequivical pattern that many men find themselves in when they are in the pursuit of a woman. And that paradoxical arrangement is the reason why they end up hopelessly waffling in their own loneliness.
You cannot repeat the same ineffective patterns over and over again and expect that one day you will be on the mark with a strategy much like that, can you? I would doubt it, at least in any other context, so why would it not be the same in the context of dating?
Is this a reason for you to become forlorn about dating in general? Or is this an incentive for you to become the polar opposite of who you truly are, just so that you may be able to get a girlfriend or meet women? Not at all.
The idea that you can be a perennial doormat to a female and win her heart in that respect is not a good one. However, this does not mean that the exact opposite strategy must be the answer. Rather, it is just a push more towards the right way to act around women, which is that of a pursuer more so than a guy who is hoping on luck or serendipity to kick in for him.
If you avoid the common pitfalls that average Joes are known for in their attemtps to sway and seduce women, then you should be fine. After all, as long as you can deduce from their misgivings what the right implementations are... you should be able to attract a girlfriend and meet women easily.
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